Bereavement Support
We are here for you
Grief is a personal experience, and individuals and families may respond in different ways. The death of a family member can bring emotional and physical reactions, as well as important decisions and arrangements in the days that follow.
UCLA Health provides guidance and resources to support individuals and families during this time. This webpage includes information from the Coping with Loss guide, along with access to support services and practical next steps.
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We provide whole-person care to maximize your quality of life. Call 424-259-7009 to schedule an appointment or for general questions about outpatient palliative care. Call 424-259-8160 to learn more about inpatient palliative care services.
Bereavement Resources
Coping with Loss (Adults)
Guidance for adults after the death of a family member
The Coping with Loss (Adults) brochure is available as a downloadable PDF.
A printed brochure may be requested from your care team.
Translated versions of the brochure are offered in Spanish, Farsi, and Simplified Chinese to support our diverse communities.
Brochure [Downloadable]
Translated versions of the Coping with Loss brochure are offered in Spanish, Farsi, and Simplified Chinese to support our diverse communities.
- Español (Spanish) – Download PDF
- فارسی (Farsi) – Download PDF
- 中文（简体) (Simplified Chinese) – Download PDF
Coping with Grief When Your Child Dies
Compassionate guidance for parents coping with the loss of a child
This brochure provides compassionate, supportive information for parents grieving the death of a child. It offers reassurance and practical guidance on common emotional, physical, and relational responses to grief, acknowledges the lifelong nature of parental loss, and shares gentle insights to help families navigate daily life, relationships, and the evolving “new normal” over time.
Brochure [Downloadable]
- Pediatric Bereavement Video: Moving Through the Grief of Losing a Child (Opens to the Video) - duration 4:43
UCLA Health Hospital Services
UCLA Health offers services to assist individuals and families during end-of-life care and throughout the bereavement process.
Department of Care Coordination and Clinical Social Work
The Department of Care Coordination and Clinical Social Work provides emotional support and practical guidance for patients and families. Social workers assist with care planning, counseling support, and connection to community resources.
Contact Us
- Ronald Reagan UCLA Medical Center: 310-267-2900
- UCLA Santa Monica Medical Center: 424-259-2700
- UCLA West Valley Medical Center: 818-676-4016
Chase Child Life Program
Child life specialists support children and teens coping with the serious illness or death of a family member. Services include age-appropriate guidance, emotional support, and memory-making activities.
Contact Us
- Ronald Reagan UCLA Medical Center: 310-267-2510
- UCLA Santa Monica Medical Center: 424-259-8193
- UCLA West Valley Medical Center: 818-676-4463
Department of Spiritual Care
Chaplains are available to provide spiritual and emotional support that honors individual beliefs, values, and traditions.
Quiet spaces for reflection and prayer are available at all campuses.
Contact Us
Ronald Reagan UCLA Medical Center
In the hospital - extension 57484
Outside the hospital -
UCLA Santa Monica Medical Center
In the hospital - extension 98170
Outside the hospital -
UCLA West Valley Medical Center
In the hospital – contact a nurse
Outside the hospital –
Nursing Supervisor / Decedent Affairs
Decedent Affairs staff and nursing supervisors provide guidance on next steps following a death of a family member, including coordination of required documentation and communication with mortuaries.
If your family member died in the hospital, you will need to fill out paperwork so the hospital can release them to the funeral home you have selected. Contact the hospital nursing supervisor or Decedent Affairs.
Contact Us
- Ronald Reagan Decedent Affairs: 310-825-7846
- UCLA Santa Monica Nursing Supervisors: 424-259-6000
- UCLA West Valley Nursing Supervisors: 818-676-4000
Ronald Reagan Decedent Affairs Office Hours:
Monday–Friday: 9 am – 6 pm
Saturday: 9 am – 4 pm
After hours and holidays, please contact the hospital nursing supervisor.
The Santa Monica nursing supervisor is available 24 hours a day.
Additional Resources
The following resources offer reflection prompts, memory-making activities, and ongoing support for individuals and families, and may be used during end-of-life care or after a loss.
Preparing for Death
Mourner’s Bill of Rights
A written statement affirming the personal and individual nature of grief.
“The Four Things” Reflection (coming)
A guided exercise centered on four meaningful statements:
“Please forgive me,” “I forgive you,” “Thank you,” and “I love you.”
Letter to a Loved One (coming)
A structured, fill-in-the-blank letter for expressing memories, gratitude, or personal reflections.
Grief & Reflection
OurHouse Grief Support Center
OurHouse offers supportive guidance for individuals, families, and children navigating grief and loss.
Memory Making (coming)
Ideas for creating keepsakes and shared moments that preserve meaningful memories.
Bedside Reflection Worksheet (coming)
A step-by-step worksheet with suggested activities and prompts to consider at the bedside.